“If you believe that you win if you’re the loudest or the last word in a disagreement, you have in fact, lost.”
Each and everyone one of us was born with the ability to reason. We have consideration, natural instincts, that is why that we learn to not swallow rocks or touch your face to a hot iron. It’s basic.
Where we fail, is we beleive that what we learned is the only correct way, it is not.